It’s important to be faithful to your spouse, and this includes being faithful regarding your finances. A recent globeinvestor.com article entitled “Do You Cheat On Your Spouse Financially?” really got me thinking about the importance of being honest and open in marriage, specifically regarding finances.
Couples need to determine how much freedom each partner gets in terms of spending without the other’s permission. Big-ticket items will likely require both partners’ consent, whereas smaller everyday items can likely be purchased at one person’s discretion.
It’s a good idea to sit down with your spouse early on in your marriage to set boundaries as well as to decide on the dollar amount that can be spent without needing the other’s permission. Of course, every marriage is different and some couples may choose to keep all of their money separate and to rarely discuss their finances with each other. (I don’t think this is the healthiest way to handle things, but I understand that there are special circumstances that may require this method.)



Well, that’s a good question! Only you can decide whether or not this will work for your particular circumstances.